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Anna (Moderator)
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Hi, I'm Anna. I'm here to keep this group safe and gentle. Two things we hold to: we don't give advice unless asked, and we don't talk about leaving or staying — we'll get there. For now, just being here with each other is enough.
I haven't slept properly in days. Anyone have something that helps with the 3 a.m. waking?
Just want to say I'm here. Found out two weeks ago. Reading these posts is the only thing that's helping right now.
You are not alone
A few people we think you might understand each other with.
Found out three months ago, still working through it. Sleep coming back. Looking to talk with someone who understands.
Six weeks in. Trying to figure out how to be in the same house as him without unraveling. Most days are okay, evenings hard.
Three months out. The shock has faded, but the questions haven't. Want to hear how someone else got through this part.